So frustrating, another set back

But not one to really worry about. Our SW called this afternoon to let us know that she received word that the Legal BFather's (J's now ex-husband) rights weren't terminated at the 7-15 hearing only the presumed BFather's rights GRRRR! This is getting so frustrating!
So the court date for his TPR is set for the am of 8-19. So we are set back yet another month. We should have had all the TPR done by the time he was 3 or 4 months old and have all our paperwork into finalize here by the time he was 6 months old. With this last court date it set us back to possibly finalizing in the Fall, but now we're looking to hopefully have things finalized by December, maybe around Christmas and his Birthday...a whole year since things all began.

As far as his legal BFather, he keeps rejecting the letters to appear in court, he wants nothing to do with Joel as he is no way his son. Yet the silly court who I guess likes wasting everyones time and money wants to try and reach him yet again. Whatever!!!!!!

So we are now back to him not be officially ours...again! We are not so much worried about anything changing this time, it's just an unsettling feeling to have to wait for word again.

Our SW said boy have we had everything that could go wrong go wrong. This has not been a smooth adoption process and it's been really trying on us.

So that's all I know for now till 8-19.