Spoke with J again

I called her tonight to say hi and see how she's doing. She was just relaxing and watching tv. She said she's doing well. She told me about her appt. on Monday and that now she needs to go back on Thurs. for a recheck as she had to make something up for them to see her on Mon. I told her I'd check in with her again over the weekend.

Also,
I spoke with our SW today and she said that 3/4 of all the adoptions they do are the same situation as this Bfather and that we shouldn't worry too much because she can't really remember any coming forward...of course we are worried, but this has helped to hear.